Years ago it was just between man
and women trying to have a family,Centuries after then, issues of homosexuality
have surfaced the earth. Although as time went by, society began to accept
them, but still the church is strongly against those gay-lesbian relationships.
And the controversies have not yet stop, rather it expanded with bisexuals
trying to break in into social circles.
I didn’t know before that bisexuals exist I only knew that there are
boys, girls, gays and lesbians not until I met this bisexual classmate of mine
during High School. Only then I know what bisexual meant.
Bisexual-means sexually attracted to both men and women
Homosexual-sexually attracted to people of the same sex
There are 6 Kinds of Abnormalities of relationships there goes the
Homosexuals, Bisexuals, Not so straight, Closet Queens and the undefined. The
situation is a havoc that you can never
pinpoint who is who and what they really are based on your first acquaintance.
Its either you have fallen head over heels over an arrogant straight guy or you’ve
definitely fallen on your face over a gay guy. Neither of the two is a good
choice. Girls wouldn’t want to end up with the second choice over a bisexual
guy. It’s not an option most females would likely choose, choosing someone who
will leave you once they “comes out of the closet.”
I had lots of homosexual and bisexual friends and while talking to one of
my gay friends. He looked at me and said, “Trust me, alam ko bakla din siya. ”
“I know kasi naaamoy ko siya,”
he added.
It sounds nonsensical , but it slightly made sense, I understand what he
is trying to convey that they had the ability to distinguish their own race
(kalahi). He was referring to our bisexual friend, a closet queen. We were
suspicious that he was a bisexual he had live in denial for years that was why
we were surprised when he’d finally admitted his preference and gender and when
he finally unveiled his partner whose also a homosexual . I applaud him for his
deep courage. It has been an extremely emotional and hard process for most, it
is very scary for someone to reveal his or her true self to his friends, family
and especially to the public. You need a lot of courage to do that! I respect
and admire their relationship on how they struggle and fight for their love against their
family. It is already expected that their families are not in favor of their
relationship. I hope that their story would be an inspiration for all the
closet queens out there. Do not be afraid to unmask the truth, it is better to
tell the truth than hiding into reality. A
lot of men live in denial for years. But please don’t live in a lie. Because in
the end every detail will come out!
Relationships have become more complicated these days that you cant even
decipher that a He is actually a He and a She is really a She. Just by browsing
pictures on Facebook you could no longer tell if a woman is really a woman.
Just by merely looking at their pictures you could be easily deceived by their
beauty and femininity. The world is in such chaos that you can no longer tell
if a she is really a she. I also observe that some gays are even more alluring
and charming than women. Reality Bites.
Are you wondering if your other half is a
gay? For those who wonder it’s a horrible dilemma. This post has inspired and
led me to outline possible signs that your boyfriend might be bisexual or gay.
Use these signs to know your man better. Before you confront him , check him
against this Top 10:
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Here are a few Signs to know if your guy is a gay and see how he scores:
10 Signs to know if your guy is a gay
1.
Check his bathroom rituals, watch how meticulous
he is with his grooming and how long does it took him inside the bathroom, how
many times he takes a shower, if he’s more groomed and has more bathroom
rituals than you are then that is highly questionable. Gay men are often
meticulous.
2.
Ask for his favorite music and singer he might
be singing Celine Dione and Mariah Carey songs and listening to Paramore and Lady
Gaga. A real man wont sing those songs. Check his Mp3/Mp4/Ipod he might be
obsessed with girl groups and female singers.
3.
Check his Google Chrome or Mozilla Firefox or
Opera Mini browsers history, check the links he’s visiting, check if he’s
visiting gay porn sites.
4.
Check his mobile device or laptop if he has M2M(Man-to-Man)
Vids, gay porn, transexual porn, or Shemale Hentai ghetto Videos(A woman with a
penis) Straight guys do NOT watch gay porns NOT occasionaly, not rarely, NEVER.
They do not entertain the idea of a men going at it, they said its not
arousing. If it is, then you’re a homosexual. Straight guys couldn’t stand
watching M2M porn. If he’s into gay porns then his obsessed with dicks! Maybe your
just a security blanket to him!
5.
Closet queens pretend to hate gays. Observe his
behavior towards the gay men if he reacts too strongly on the negative or too
violently- perhaps he’s pretending to hate gays so no one wouldn’t suspect him
for being a closet queen.
6.
He flirts with men. Girls can be sweet to each
other but guys DON’T. They never ever do Guys don’t compliment other guys. Like for
example a man won’t say “Wow, You got a hot and cool muscles” “Nice Body”. Only
a man who’s sexually interested with
another man would try to flirt with another man.
7.
Chart your sexlife, note how often you and him
are intimate and if you’re always the one who has to start the process rolling.
Is he a kind and understanding partner who likes spending time with you, but
avoids kissing passionately and breaks away from the kiss within a few seconds?
8.
Touch his rectum to see if it was stretched open
with a dick.
9.
If he likes anal sex more than vaginal sex. If
he watches gay porn and likes to put it more in the butt, he might be gay! Then
that’s a sign.
10.
We all know that most straight guys typically
loves sex. They want to have it regularly and enjoys it. Closeted gay men might
avoid it and would try to make excuses.
My Advice:
Some says never
confront a man about his sexuality. Because its hard enough coming out of the
closet. But the point is the females are the victims in here, they use a woman
as a beard to cover up who they are and what about us? What about the woman who
invested their hearts, who were being played and used the whole time? But
please don’t live in a lie anymore, because in the end everything will come out…
I think it is better to talk with your guy, try to be calm while talking to
him. If he still denies it then maybe he’s not yet ready to admit it to
himself. Just wait for the right time until he’s ready and he has sorted out
his feelings. And if ever he admits it FACE THE REALITY , the signs are there ,
don’t ignore your woman intuition. I know that its hard to start over again
when you love someone…
