How to know if it’s OVER

Are you happy or satisfied with your relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend ? Or sometimes have you realized that THING’S AREN’T LIKE BEFORE? Have you felt that the love has gone? And the sparks isn’t there anymore..? These are the 10 few things to know if the relationship is already OVER..

1. He isn’t that sweet anymore like when we used to when we were dating

2. Whenever I told him I love you I don’t get a reply back

3. He have no time for me, he got so many alibis that he’s busy at work etc etc.

4. He’s not using our endearment anymore

5. Work and friends is more important to him, you are the last priority

6. The two of you always fight, you never had a day without a fight

7. You are no longer happy with your relationship

8. You are always hurt, you can no longer endure the hurt and the pain

9. You are the only one who’s making the effort to make this relationship work. There’s no more Give and take in your relationship. You are always ignored by him

10. He doesn’t appreciate your efforts any longer If you’re experiencing these things then you should ask yourself “IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT?” If your answer is ‘No’ then what are you waiting for Dump the Guy ! If you are no longer happy with something there’s no reason to hold on to it anymore..
I know that it isn’t easy to dump your guy especially if you’ve fallen silly in love with him. But think of this, you are not happy anymore you were just making a fool of yourself if you still continue this relationship. Think Twice. Think Thrice.  *These tips are based on my own experienced with my ex-boyfriend; I just know that the relationship is over because I can feel it. I can feel that the love has gone. Love left us. 

I just want to share my own experienced with my ex-boyfriend on how did I knew that our relationship has finally come to an end. First I noticed that he isn’t the one that I have known before he has changed a lot. And that hurts me so much. Way back to the old days he was so sweet, so caring and so thoughtful. I was in seventh heaven! I was experiencing ultimate bliss. He was my love and my life. He was everything to me. I thought he was the one but I guess I was wrong, that’s when I realized that at the beginning of a relationship is full of sweetness but after we’ve reached a year...Love begins to fade. The love we built for almost 2 years were crushed by the mighty waves of the outraging sea. My shattered dreams and broken heart were mended on a shelf. He wounded my heart and left a scar.
That is why I firmly believe that if you are no longer happy with something there’s no reason to hold on to it. You just have to let go. Kami ni Gelo, we wanted to make things work. Kaya nga umabot kami for almost 2 years were repairing our relationship pero wala talaga lumalabas pa rin yung mga nagiging problema namin with each other. Yung tipong wala kayong ORAS para sa isa’t-isa. Yung bang busy siya sa work nya tapos busy din naman ako sa work and studies ko. Yung inaakala mo na okay kayo, hindi naman pala. Kesa naman maglokohan pa kami, I’ve decided to end the relationship. Dahil na realize ko naglolokohan na lang kaming dalawa. Kesa naman lumaki pa ang problema namin, ayokong umabot kami sa samaan ng loob. Kaya it’s better to end things na maayos. But were still friends.
I remember before I can feel that he doesn’t love me anymore because as time goes by everything gets worst he doesn’t have the TIME for me. He always says he’s busy at work, he had family problems and whatsoever he had so many alibis. Hanggang sa hindi na rin niya ko tinatawag na “Mhine’. Naisip ko hindi naman siya manlalamig kung wala siyang bagong pinagiinitan, or maybe may bago na siyang Apple of the eyes or it might be may 3rd party. BUT WHATEVER IT WAS I DON’T CARE ANYMORE. Until the situation gets worst whenever I told him I Love You, I didn’t get a reply back. So I then, gave up on love. 
Dear Ex, Thank you for loving and hurting me. Thanks for the memories.